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2018 Goals
So, it’s January 16th. Yes, people, that means that we are halfway through the first month of 2018. Stressed yet?
I haven’t written yet about my 2018 goals, but I do want to share those with you. 2018 is going to be a big year for me and I’m planning to rock this year so well that it makes up for the absolute disaster that was 2017. Good riddance, year of awfulness.
So, 2018.
My word for 2018 is FOCUS. I want to focus on the things most important to me: my family and friends, research, teaching, self-care, and creativity.
My goals this year fall into three categories: Adventures I want to have, Projects I want to finish, and ongoing goals that I want to work on.
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Adventures:
- See family in Rolla
- Attend SP meeting in June
- Attend Go Wild 2018
- Go to a museum
- Go to zoo with H, M, and V
- Go to one non-ALR reading
- Volunteer 6 times
Projects:
- Interview dad
- Read 10 nonfiction, non academic books this year
- Etsy
- Submit article for publication
- Apply to a job
- Finish a draft of my dissertation
- Digitalize all my files
- Declutter my apartment
- Get rid of 300 things in 2018
- Curate a capsule wardrobe
- Supplement regimen
- Stamp inventory
- Books organized and database updated
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Ongoing goals:
- Keep up with grading and teaching work
- Find a spiritual community
- Become a budgeting badass
- Master the art of Meal prep
- Re-immerse myself into the liturgical year
- Year-long spending fast (oh, yes, I will write about this in another post)
In addition to these, I have a few daily, weekly, and monthly rituals I’m trying to turn into habits, most notably a Bible reading plan with my soul-sister, B.
Operation: Birthday Reclamation
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Given that it’s January 16th, most people who know me know that it’s the day after my birthday. And this was an important one for me, given that it was one year ago on my birthday that someone I really trusted said something awful to me—the worst thing I could imagine and the worst she could probably have said at that time. So this year, I set out with a few good humans to reclaim my birthday.
First, I went to Starbucks with my friend, M. Then, my close friends and I celebrated by going to a favorite restaurant, walking around favorite shops, and sharing gluten free crepes at a new favorite place recommended by my dear friend and adopted brother, T. It might sound like such a simple thing, but for me it was a huge blessing. At one point during the meal, I looked around and saw the faces of my beloved friends and thought—these people care enough about me to sacrifice their last day off before the semester, drive 30 minutes, pay for an expensive meal, and walk around a stationery shop all just to celebrate my birthday. It’s humbling to be loved so much and I’m so grateful.
Genuinely the best friends I could ask for. So sad B. wasn't able to make it! (Photo by random lady at Daiso.)
It is also a reminder to me that we can never know what God has in store for us. A year ago, I thought my life would never get better, that I would never heal or be able to trust again. A year ago, I did not even know three of those friends. All three of them were brought into my life during 2017—and our friendships cemented largely because of Gary. And the rest--even though I knew them—have become so much more important to me in the last year. It’s been a long, hard road and there were many times that I wasn’t sure I would make it (and neither were they), but I’ve finally hit a stride where I feel strong and healthy and—dare I say it?—happy. There are still many struggles ahead and I still have rough days, but I just keep thinking about that saying—it’s a bad day, not a bad life.
2018 will be my year
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This is what I keep saying. When my friends and I are stressed, I repeat it over and over. 2018 will be our year. I’ve seen that celebrities have claimed it will be the year of women. I’m not sure about that, but I fully believe that something is going to change for the better for me and for my close friends. And it’s going to change because we’re going to work hard.
As you’ve probably noticed, I’ve become a lot more into planning and the planner community. In case you didn’t know, I even founded the Denton Planner Girls group on facebook! We have regular meet ups and it’s so much fun. I’m really getting back into my creative side and I’m finding bullet journaling to be particularly therapeutic. I definitely think that getting into planning has made me more confident—and for good reason! When I’m constantly seeing words like “Hustle,” “Boss Babe,” and “Goal Digger,” it’s hard not to start thinking in those terms. This led me to invite M. to join me in the Wild Sisterhood—my first year back since I came to Denton. I have a lot of plans for this year beyond me goals above, including starting my own business, and I think that becoming a Wild Sister will help me with those goals. You’ll hear more about that in the future. But for now, just know—2018 is going to be my year. I hope it’s yours, too.
And, in case you missed it on my social media:
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